Halloween has come and gone and left me with a new perspective on parenthood and my journey as a woman moving through my life. See for me this was my first year not rushing home to get my daughters ready to trick or treat. I have a sophomore in college and an 8th grader in middle school. This year my youngest daughter had other plans that involved her going home with a friend and trick or treating in a neighborhood other than my own. I woke up on Halloween morning to a page full of past Facebook Halloween memories. As I scrolled through the memories filled with snaggletooth smiles and dozens of costumes between the two of them over the years, my heart sank. Where had the time gone?
I fought crazy traffic after leaving work and came home to a quiet house. My husband had picked up candy for the trick or treaters earlier that day. It was my first time being home to greet the trick or treaters as I always took the girls out and hubby stayed behind. It was so quiet and empty. I texted my youngest to see how things were going and reminded her that I needed to see a picture at least. I checked in with college girl to see what her plans were and I received a selfie of her with the caption “I am a tired college student #spooky”. This new normal is very hard at times for sure. I hugged my hubby for comfort and we settled in to welcome the trick or treaters. My dog comes around the corner and I had a light bulb moment and found a costume that I picked up a few years ago and wrestled him down to take a few pictures. He was not happy, but I felt so much better.
As the evening went along I got to see all the little neighborhood kids at the door and the proud parents. I reflected on my experiences with my girls and I realized that I tried to do too much and was often not fully present for many wonderful moments. I was that busy super mom juggling a million things. In our country, we fought hard for women’s rights over the past decades to be equal to men. I think we swung way too far over to the other side. We have this new badge of honor that we wear that is celebrated when we are slaying it as women, crushing goals and the myth that we can have it all. All the while we are more sick, tired, depressed and not living in the moment. Yesterday was a huge reminder of the importance of being in the present, taking things off our plates and slowing down as women and especially moms. I never thought of the day my girls would become more independent or the day they would leave the nest.
This past year of transition has left me feeling lost, filled with anxiety, depressed, unmotivated and just not myself. I am in the process of healing, practicing more self-care and redefining who I am as a woman now that my roles are changing. I look back and realized all the balls I had in the air are not as important as the quality time spent with my kids when I was not super stressed, worn out or distracted. Yesterday was a reminder that we are constantly evolving and change is happening all around us. On this week’s Empower Hour I want to remind everyone to drop a few balls every day that you are trying to juggle to make room to fully embrace the special moments in life!
Here are some great tools to learn to do less, be more present and drop more balls:
- Drop the Ball: Achieving More by Doing Less: by Tiffany Dufu
- Own Your Glow – A Soulful Guide to Luminous Living and Crowing the Queen Within: by Latham Thomas
- Oprah & Deepak Chopra Making Every Moment Matter 21 Day Mediation Series (https://chopracentermeditation.com)
Celebrate Life Every day!
We are so excited to welcome an empowerment segment to our blog! Our bi-weekly contributor Kara Norman is no stranger to the empowerment world and has been working with Women and Girls for a number of years. Her nonprofit organization Empower Her Inc , have led to many opportunities in the space of making social changes as it deals with women and their many roles in society. You can learn more about Kara Norman and Empower Her Inc. at http://www.empowerherinc.com/
Reflections of Foundation of Strength!
Remembering my grandmother’s legacy today on her birthday. So important to tap into the strength of the amazing women that came before me and make me who I am today!#mylegacy #heritage
I posted this about her in 2013:
Today is my Grandmother’s birthday, she passed away a few days after President Obama was elected. I remember calling her the next day after he was elected and she was so proud to have lived to see that day! On this day, I miss her terribly, but know that she is so proud of me in Heaven. She was a STRONG woman of faith and I feel her prayers carrying me through life now. I think I get some of my empowerment spirit from her. She attended Clark Atlanta University at a time when women were not going to college, she even majored in math! She told me that she remembered seeing Mary Mckeod Bethune and W.E.B Dubois on her campus teaching classes! I also remember learning that after my grandmother retired she used to teach a woman in her 70s how to read once a week! She was also an empowered mom raising 6 children in a very difficult time. My grandmother taught elementary school when schools were integrated many years ago. Could you imagine being a teacher in that classroom on that day! Thank you Grandma Lucy for leaving such a beautiful and strong legacy and thank you God for giving me such a wonderful role model and support system for so many years!
This scripture came in my spirit this morning “I can do ALL things in Christ who strengthens me” Philippians 4:13. I immediately thought about my Grandma Lucy who was a strong woman of faith and wisdom. She raised 6 children and endured many trials. She always had a open bible on her bed until the end. Today I felt her strength that no matter how hard and challenging things are you must have your faith to triumph through it all.
Thank you Grandma for passing down one of the best gifts a family can receive..FAITH!
Have a faith filled Day Everyone!
Ancestral Prayer– Taken From Own you Glow – Latham Thomas!
“Light a candle and sit in silence. Ask for guidance as you tune in to the silence. Start to speak to you ancestors silently or out loud”
I honor my unique gifts, talents and powers. I come from a strong and powerful people. I release the baggage and ancestral wounds that have been past on to me. I will turn the pain and struggle of my past into purpose. I celebrate the freedom that I have because of sacrifices made before me. I promise to honor my lineage and live out my truth. I bow to the legacy that gave rise to me. Through my thoughts and actions, I pave the path for a legacy I will leave behind”
This week dinner idea is a take on your regular chicken breast!
Chicken Marsala with mushrooms over garlic mashed potatoes
Let the cooking begin… But first here are the ingredients for your dish
4 boneless skinless chicken breasts, thinly sliced*
salt and pepper
2 tablespoons olive oil
1½ cups sliced mushrooms
½ cup Marsala wine** see note
½ cup chicken broth
1 cup heavy whipping cream
1 teaspoon ground mustard
1 teaspoon garlic powder
Fresh Chopped Parsley for garnish
- In a large skillet over medium heat add 1 tablespoon olive oil to the pan. Add the chicken and lightly salt and pepper. Cook until lightly brown and cooked throughout. Remove chicken and set aside on plate.
- Add 1 Tablespoon olive oil and sauté the mushrooms for 1-2 minutes. Add marsala wine and bring to a boil over medium high heat for 1-2 minutes. This allows the alcohol to burn out. Add the chicken broth, heavy whipping cream, ground mustard, and garlic powder. Bring to a boil and reduce heat and simmer for about 10 minutes or until it starts to thicken. Place chicken back in the sauce and continue to simmer for about 1-2 minutes.
Recipe by- recipe critic
Preparation and Food By Smarty Marty
We are excited to share clips from our Portfolio & Perspective Style Shoot workshop!
This event brought together event planners (stylist) and photographers providing each attendee with physical portfolio and digital images to assist in marketing to their idea client.
So once you have this portfolio what to do next well we were excited that
Helena Paschal – Correlations LLC & Helena Motivates & Vanessa Parker (The Pink Boss)- both discuss best business practices, marketing, and branding for your business.
Anthony James- Head Caterer of Aj’s Catering Atlanta spoke on the journey to walk in his passion.
Next Event September 2018!
We are excited to bring you this week Foodie Tuesday recipe idea! This would be a winner for your family.
Gathering up Fresh Ingredients
1 pound ground turkey
1/2 cup bread crumbs
1 teaspoon dried basil
1 teaspoon dried oregano
1 teaspoon dried parsley
1/2 teaspoon garlic salt
1/2 cup grated Parmesan cheese
1 large egg
2 tablespoons olive oil
1 tablespoon Montreal steak spice
1 jar marinara sauce
16 slices provolone cheese
8 buns or sandwich rolls
Preheat oven to 425 degrees. In a large bowl, mix together turkey, bread crumbs, basil, oregano, parsley, garlic salt, Parmesan cheese, egg, olive oil, and steak spice. Form meat mixture into 1-1/2″ meatballs and place on a greased cookie sheet. Bake for 15 minutes, or until cooked through.
Slice buns in half and place on a baking tray. Place two slices of provolone cheese on the top half of each bun. Preheat oven to broil and lightly toast buns until golden brown and cheese has melted.
Warm marinara sauce in a large saucepan over low-medium heat or in the microwave until heated through.
Top the bottom half of each toasted bun with 3-4 meatballs, cover in marinara sauce and replace the top half of each bun.
Images & Table Setting by Smarty Marty
Recipe By : http://www.sixsistersstuff.com
Labor Day True Confessions: “It’s All Good until It’s time to do the Work” – I love planning thinking & creating and so much more… I have notebooks filled with ideas on top of ideas!!! It’s so much fun to even plan every detail in my imagination… and then it’s time to put your thoughts in motion and that’s when the real work begins… and those ideas stay tucked away in the beautiful inspiring notebook that I have so many of…. Then there are days that I’m reminded.. you then have a choice is this going to be a figment of my imagination or we going to make this real by putting in the work… Here’s to Making small steps to the bigger picture!
Reading Books can most definitely change how your feeling. I love how Christina Paschal explained at the recent Pretty Girls Read Book Club Meeting how Books are magic Take a look here!
Learn more about Pretty Girls Read Book club at http://www.prettygirlsread.com